1. HAVE A MINT
This is a very important tip for kissing with your tongue! You don’t want to experience your first open-mouthed kiss with #bad breath! Make sure you have a mint or chew some gum before getting started. You can also buy mini-toothbrushes that are pre-pasted to carry in your purse. They are great for after dinner or even things like unexpected airport delays and #things like that. They are disposable and you can even use them without water if you need to! They come in a pack of four so you get several to try out. Choose from a range of flavors and colors!
2. BE GENTLE
The best kiss happens when both kissing parties (hah, this sounds like a contract) take it slow and kind of “go with the flow.” Every #time you’re about to kiss a new person, you basically have to start from scratch and that’s what makes it interesting. So, no biting or violent tongue action just yet! Be gentle, don’t try to dominate the kiss and just relax and have fun exploring.
3. DON’T DROOL
One of the most crucial tips on kissing patiently! Sexy kissing does presume an exchange of a certain amount of bodily fluids but it sure doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to keep something for yourself, too. Both guys and girls really need work on their multitasking skills because it is possible to kiss and swallow your excess spit (pardon my French) at the same #time!
4. CONTROL YOURSELF
Guys have this incredible urge to grab you by the neck and demonstrate everything they’ve learned while watching those almost-violent, semi-animalistic kissing #scenes shot to keep the audience entertained until the next car explodes. And, although a little hard-loving may be sexy from time to time, it sure doesn’t make a good #first kiss. Maybe some girls do this too… I really wouldn’t know. What I do know is that I don’t like to feel like a scared little hamburger that’s about to get devoured.
5. USE YOUR HANDS
A passionate, memorable kiss involves the whole #body, not just the lips, so feel free to wrap your hands around your partner’s neck or waist. This will make the situation less awkward and help both of you relax. Now, guys, just to make #things clear – this should feel less like groping and more like an intimate, romantic moment. Don’t squeeze your #girl too tight but leave her enough space to react if you “lose your head” and, slow down when you notice she’s not feeling comfortable anymore.
6. ONE STEP AT A TIME
Small sexy bites are always a good way to spice things up, so before you switch to turbo mode give him or her enough #time to adapt to the situation. If your partner returns the bite or in any other way shows he/she likes it, you can speed #things up, if not, you might want to stick to gentle kisses. Don’t get disappointed because that doesn’t mean you’ll never get to kiss him/her the way you want– some #people just need more time to relax, that’s just it.
7. DON’T EXPECT TOO MUCH
The last one of my tips on kissing patiently would be to get used to the fact that a kiss doesn’t have to turn into something more. Even the hottest, most intense kiss can end right then and there and, although it sometimes feels a bit unfair, that’s just the way it is. You have to be respectful of each other.
But don’t think these tips on kissing patiently are for guys only! I’ve never kissed a #girl but I’m sure some females are impatient kissers as well because those guys had to learn it from somebody! But, tell me ladies, what do you thing about impatient kissers and those, in my opinion, scary, “I’ll eat half of your #face” kisses?
